Ray often rolls over onto his back when he sees one of us approaching him. An invitation to tummy rubs? Perhaps. He often starts “lip-licking” when in that position which brings his body language into question.
As many of you already know, “lip licking” can be a sign of stress relief; a sign of appeasement or submission. While we often assume that he is inviting a tummy rub, he could be giving off a quite different message which we may not understand.
Just recently however, I believe that I received a very clear message from him. He was laying on the floor and, as I approached him, he did his usual roll-over to expose his tummy. I started rubbing his tummy when he started regular lip-licking! Mixed messages again!
Until I can understand him better, I chose to err on the side of respect for his possible wishes, and moved to his back legs which he presented in such a manner as to make a leg massage very easy! Being a Shepherd/Rotti X, he has a very good set of muscles in his back legs which make it very easy to massage/stimulate as desired.
As soon as I started working on his left back leg, his “lip-licking” stopped and he seemed to totally relax. After a few minutes, I switched over to his right back leg and repeated the process but, this time, he interrupted.
He turned his head towards me so that we had direct eye contact. He then lifted his head up and licked my nose, which was quickly followed by two quick, but distinct, nose touches! I think that I am pretty accurate in interpreting that as an unequivocal sign of approval. Love you too buddy! It was my pleasure!
So tender and sweet! Ray may not be able to speak words, but he definitely knows how to speak his heart.
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Awwww… Ray is definitely the sweetest ! Such a wonderful way to reciprocate love 🙂
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Yup! Can’t help but love the “guy”! 🙂
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Read your page about Ray’s book ! Eager to see it in print 🙂
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I am currently reviewing the front and back covers design proposals. Everything is looking pretty good. 🙂
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So cool ! i’d love to read it when you publish !
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Hi Himali – I can guarantee you that it will be promoted on this Blog as soon as release dates are known! 🙂
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Please have a kindle version too 🙂
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Does this help – I think Friesen are covering everybody!
PDF eBook Distribution
Amazon Kindle Distribution
Nook Distribution – Barnes & Noble
Kobo Distribution – Chapters Indigo
Google/Android Books Distribution
Apple iBookstore Distribution
FriesenPress Online Bookstore
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Whoho ! Fantastic 🙂
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Our dogs usually seem to “get” us and know what we want and understand our expressions and body language. It’s very cool when we are able to pick up on what they are telling us as in this case with you and Ray.
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They are certainly the masters of our body language so yes, it is very cool when we can start to understand theirs!
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Ray sure is a sweetie and your description really underscores that. 🙂
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He is certainly special! 🙂
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You must have found the right spot. Cats are different. Many don’t like tummy rubs. My old cat Jake liked to be rubbed everywhere including his groin. I swear he would get all soft and relaxed after a good rub. Hazel on the other hand only likes any form of touching for about 2 minutes then she will push you off. Reading what they want is key.
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Oh, is that beautiful! That i just amazing how much love these beautiful beings are able to express! He must be consciously thankful for being with you, Colin!
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He does seem very happy living with us and we, as you know, are so happy having him here. 🙂
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I know, and that is what he feels… home!
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Dogs tell us so much with their body language, we just have to translate it.
Maybe Ray had a bit of cramp and a rub from Dad would solve the problem.
Like Ray, Maggie will roll over on her back for a tummy rub, but in recent months she had been guiding my hand to her chest and if I moved it back, she would again guide it to where she wanted with her front feet.
It was during one of these sessions that we first noticed the lump, so although the vet assured us she was not in any pain, she was actually telling us that something was amiss. She’s making a very good recovery bless her.
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Excellent news Di. 🙂
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