Here’s a thought!
I have always believed in treating people the way I would like to be treated. The theory is great but, sometimes, I fall a little short of that goal. The reasons are not that I have changed my mind, nor that “you” did something to trigger it, but always (as far as I know) a result of me simply reacting a little faster than my brain can think!
I give you that preamble in the hope that your reaction will be “Yes, I can relate to both the idea involved, and also to the times that I too fall short!”
Now to the Post:
I think most of you, like me, put significance on Comments received against your Posts. Not only is a Comment absolute proof that somebody visited your site (WP Stats are “creative” and often contradictory), but it also suggests a desire to express an opinion; suggest alternative perspectives, or simply just to encourage a dialogue on a particular topic.
Considering the number of Comments received since this Blog started in October, 2014, I have only exercised my “moderator power” once to block an inappropriate Comment. Comments clearly have a very high percentage acceptability and relevance!
Needless to say, I love reading what is on your mind after you read my Posts but, what I like just as much, because it establishes a more “personal” touch from wherever you are on our planet, is when you use my name! It is lovely to read a Comment from (e.g.) India which starts ‘Hi Colin” or “What were you drinking when you wrote that Post Colin?”
I know many of you by name, but there are so many of you who are anonymous. If that is by choice, then of course I must respect that. If however you too like a “first name” relationship, and if I have not used your name in a dialogue, it’s probably because I have nothing to work with other than your site address.
Please accept this Post as an invitation to share your first name with me. In return you will get a hug sent to you personally over the internet, and a more personal response to any Comments you care to make.
Food for thought.
Hi Colin! Being that I am late to seeing this post I know that you already know my name, in fact you know more than 1 of my name’s! So you can pick whatever name you prefer. I just hope that its not too late for that hug across the miles. 🙂
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Its nice that hugs don’t have an expiration date!
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How about when people accidentally call you Ray instead? I think I only did that the once! Happy New Year, Colin, Carol & Ray 🙂
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Yes you did Carolyn … but you’re not alone! 🙂
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Hi Colin,
Point well made, but you have to be curious, click the avatar, and visit around a little too. In some cases you’ll find a name plastered everywhere. In others, the fun is in the detective work and engaging about the content out there.
Happy New Year!
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I agree, but sometimes the site creator has, inadvertently or by design, not offered their name. Sometimes, the first name will “slip out” during a dialogue but, of course, not always. Then of course (I saved the best until last), a click on their site address and the location “has been deleted by the author” i.e. like your site! 🙂 kennedy.wordpress.com
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Hi Colin and woof to Ray,
This is from India and a hug is coming your way along with wishes for an awesome year ahead.. 🙂
– Aadhira
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Hi Aadhira – You also have a great New Year. Hug is on its way to you with big deep (and friendly) “WOOF” from Ray. 🙂
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Hello, it’s Maggie the Pitbull and her human, Liz. We’ve often chatted via comments! Best wishes for a Happy New Year! Woof!
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Thx Maggie and Liz. All the best to you “guys” too. Its always nice to hear from you. 🙂
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Sort of obvious but it had to be this way for my “work”. Coming from a profession that required anonymity for the most part, it was a BIG change to throw it all out there for the world to view. But the rewards I receive from yours (well Ray’s, really) and all the other clever and well done blogs makes it all worth it. Thanks right back to you and please keep posting.
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Have a great New Year Mike. Given your writing experience, your Comments (well at least the positive ones!!!) are always welcome. 🙂
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Hi Colin and Ray. We are Amy and Lexi. 🙂 No hugs for me please, I throw a fit and wiggle out of them as fast as I can, except at the children’s hospital where it is part of the job. 🙂 Lexi
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Hi Lexi – Given that dogs don’t hug each other, that is understandable. Hi Amy, a Happy New Year hug is on its way to you now and should arrive any minute.:) It’s always nice hearing from you “guys”.
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Hi Colin & Ray & Carol
Seasons Greetings
Keep up the posts – they are looked forward to and read daily.
Regards Roy
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All the best to you “guys” too. So glad you are finding my ramblings interesting. If you are receptive to a hug, I just sent one over the Atlantic!:)
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I like comments, but only when someone has something to say. Sometimes I don’t, so I just og with the like, and sometimes people don’t and it is weird.
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Sounds normal to me! Not much point in saying nothing! Have a great New Year Josh. 🙂
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You too!
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I think exactly the same, dear Colin! Whenever I know the name of the person I basically mention it (sometimes I miss it – shame on me!) But I think too that this is, what gives the connections a personal touch and which connects even more! Hugs to you, and Ray, Erika 😘
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Hugs back to you Erika. Take care. 🙂
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Thank you, Colin. Thank you, Ray 😘
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Hi Colin, agree with you about the personal touch in the comments and remember your email requesting my first name. Hope you, Carol and Ray have had a lovely Christmas. Hugs all round from our house (even if borrowed!) to yours. Hi paws for Ray from Maggie!
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Hi Di. Hugs and paws back to you “guys”. 🙂
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Brilliant idea! That noise you’re hearing in the background is applause for thinking creatively. Hope you, Carol and Ray all had a wonderful Christmas.
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Thanks Monika we did …thank you, but I already know your name! Anyway, we always love to hear from you so a warm hug is on its way. 🙂
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🙂 We always accept warm hugs. Thanks, Colin! Onward to a happy, safe and marvelous New Year.
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Absolutely! Take care. 🙂
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You too, stay safe and warm.
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Er … OK Colin, me old matey, me old skipjack. I think I know you well enough by now to call you C.
All the very best. K.
P.S.. I very much agree with you anyway. Sometimes I get likes on newly published posts within a few nanoseconds. Nice to receive of course but I can’t cope with light-speed reactions.
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Hi Chris. Always a pleasure! If you are receptive to a hug, there is one on its way to you. No strings attached. Just an expression of appreciation. 🙂
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And yes! Hello to Ray as well! Dear dear, how did I forget that? :O
I hope Ray isn’t angry now. Hehe.. Merry Christmas to him as well! 🙂
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Woof! Love you too Suri! Woof! Ray.
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“I have always believed in treating people the way I would like to be treated.” I believe the same. :d
Well, hello there Colin! You already know my name. 😀
Anyway, Merry Christmas! (Sorry for the late wishes.)
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Hi Suri. It is always lovely to hear from you. A warm hug has been sent in your direction. Should be there very soon! 🙂
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Hi Colin, It’s Kate but you probably knew that. I’m a fan of yours and an even bigger fan of Ray (sorry he’s more cuddly than you)! I agree with you about comments. I love other people’s point of view (as long as they are not obscene). The blogging community is very supportive and fun and have taught me so much!
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Hi Kate – Yes, we are no strangers to each other by name …. but have a hug anyway! 🙂
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Hello there Colin, hello there Ray! My name is Phoebe, but people call me Puppy…hehe. Pleased to meet you! 😀
Btw I always appreciate your comments…always thoughtful and thought-provoking. I enjoy reading them! Have a great day! 🙂
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“Puppy” is a very cute, and no doubt appropriate name for you (although Puppy MD seems odd!). If you don’t mind, I shall also call you Puppy, and a hug is winging its way over to you as I type! 🙂
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