I learned many years ago that a glass half filled with water could be described as half full, or half empty. Both descriptions would be technically correct, and so it came down to the perspective of the observer. If the observer generally focused on what they don’t have in life (a negative perspective), then they would see the glass as half empty. In contrast, a person who tends to acknowledge what they do have (a positive perspective) would see the glass as half full.
I am sure that we all know people who are constantly complaining about some aspect of their life but, hopefully, we also know people who are content with what they have. This would appear to have very little to do with a standard of living, but more a simple perception of their world. There are very affluent people living in large houses who are constantly complaining, and there are people earning minimum wage and living in a 1-room apartment who are very happy with their situation. It is all perspective.
It is a shame that we can so easily get caught up in the rather materialistic game of keeping up with our friends; neighbors, and the TV advertising, that we forget to acknowledge what we actually do have. The simple fact that we have friends, neighbors and a TV is worth an appreciative smile as there are people without any of those things!
There are so many aspects of life where we should perhaps be acknowledging how lucky we are, rather than complaining about it. It is all perspective.
I will be happy today if it is sunny because I can get some outdoor jobs done. I will also be happy if it rains because there is plenty to do inside! I win regardless of how the weather works out! That same perspective can be applied to pretty much any set of circumstances.
I have noted Ray’s problematic and challenging areas many times here (and in his book), but I have also recognized his display of willingness to learn and adapt. If my life is typical of yours (and allowing for some details changing, I suspect that it is), then there are always positive spins that can be applied to negative circumstances. They may not be immediately obvious but they are there.
One quote that I have never forgotten:
“I cried because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet.”
Regardless of our circumstances, there are always going to be people who are dealing with worse situations than us. We should recognize the simple fact that things could be a lot worse, and celebrate what we do in fact have.
Food for thought.
(Thanks Carolyn for the idea of this Post)
You are so right. 🙂 It is all about perspective.
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Hi Marit: Yes it really is if you think about it. Sadly, so many people either just don’t want to think about it, or are in an “automatic mode” where they simply and intuitively react to circumstances. Of course it is so easy to be negative. Being positive involves a degree of thought!
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EVERY day is a good day…some just better than others. 🙂
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You win the gold medal Monika – take the rest of the day off!
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Excellent and insightful post.
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Thanks Yvonne. It’s always reassuring to know that things that “float around” in my brain are sometimes of interest to others!
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You know, that I totally love this post, Colin, don’t you? 😉 It is so true, it is all perspective. It is about the decision of seeing what I have and not crying about what I don’t have. Great post!
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Thanks Erika. I suspected that it would resonate with you! 🙂
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I hoped so…😃
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I smiled when I saw the title of this post. Glad you wrote it ,for you have to be one of the most positive persons I have ever met! And my life has been enriched ☺
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Wow! I hope that I can maintain that perception! 🙂
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Gives you something to strive for as I strive to see the positive in early mornings.😃but my friend who is also up at the crack of dawn is a positive person as well. Maybe there is a correlation, tho not sure I want to admit that 😃
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You don’t need to admit anything. Just accept that getting up a little earlier in the morning provides opportunities that would otherwise be overlooked. 🙂
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I like this….and if you think about it…a glass is always full…even if half of it is filled with air. ☺☺
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Very true! 🙂
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I too remember that quote often.
As for the cup being half full or half empty depending on your frame of mind, on my negative days, my cup may be half emoty, but at least I know where the tap is to refill it. 🙂 These days I count my blessings, and I have a lot to be thankful for. 🙂
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… as do we all (have a lot to be thankful for) 🙂
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