“Impending Doom!” may be a little dramatic for this Post but then, while the outcome was significantly less than dramatic, the sense of helplessness was still very real.
Settling into my seat on a Boeing Jumbo at Heathrow Airport in 1975, and knowing that my next stop was Toronto, Canada, is an example of feeling helpless. I was passed the point of no return and, based on my financial situation, there could be no return anyway!
Many years ago, I traded our car in for Emily (a Chevy Astro van). It was simply more practical for our lifestyle, and was far more versatile due to its carrying capacity. However, Emily was not the most predictable of vehicles in a heavy snow storm and once, I lost control of herΒ on our Hwy 401 (our major artery). She went into a spin and I was conscious of seeing alternating head lights and tail lights as she and I waltzed our way across 3 or 4 lanes of vehicles. Fortunately traffic was not heavy, and the drivers that were behind me just came to a stop and waited for me to sort things out! During that spin/dance routine, again there was the feeling of total helplessness.
I am “stability challenged” (aka a klutz) but, fortunately, my brain has adapted accordingly. When I trip, I usually have the ability to prepare for a reasonable landing however, I cannot negate such a fall and so, once again, there is that momentary feeling of helplessness.
Yesterday, I was sitting on my bed working on my (late) sister’s photo album. Not only did I have the album open, but I also had little piles of photographs as I got things organized.Β I was happily planning what to do next when I heard it! I heard the running feet of almost 80lbs of affection!
Carol had been playing with Ray and decided to come and see what I was doing. As soon as Ray appeared in the doorway, I just knew! Impending doom! Absolute helplessness… and I was right because he suddenly took a flying leap onto my bed and landed on the open album. He then wanted to say “Hi” to me which dictated he turn around, which crumpled an album page and destroyed my organized piles of pics!
There’s nothing better for me than to see a happy Ray, and his enthusiasm to say “Hi” is wonderfulΒ but… really?
“Ray… can’t you just give me a little more time to prepare?”
HA ha ha ha π He timed it so well…. But greetings are always important, aren’t they??
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Hi Prajakta. Given the options:
– 80lbs of spontaneous greetings
– 80lbs of withdrawn dog
– 80lbs of aggression
– 80lbs of “where on earth did he go?)
Yup ……… I’ll take the greetings, even if his timing really sucked, and his choice of a landing area was not thought through too well! π
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Having a four-legged editor when scrapbooking is quite the luxury, don’t ya know? I’ve always had to do my photo books by myself and ‘might’ welcome the 80 lb. help. π
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Hi Monika. I think “might” is the key word in your Comment! π
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π Way to read between the lines.
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Hahaa, how can you not love him?
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You can’t! He’s just a big goof at times!:)
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Hahaha! I always think we got to learn from dogs the art of expressing our happiness. They do it so beautifully. π
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They certainly do… and they are totally uninhibited!:)
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Same thing happened to me in a van as I was exiting an interstate onto an icy (black ice) 4 lane highway. Spin, spin, spin, stop to face oncoming traffic. Thankfully, the other driver did the same as with you. If it were’t so scary it would have been fun. At least no pictures were lost in the spinning of the vans.
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Somebody was watching over us! π
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A dog’s spontaneous affection is priceless, isn’t it! π
So “Emily” is the name of your van? What was the name of your car? Just curious. π Glad that you both made it through your “dance” with no injuries!
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Emily was the name of my van. No other vehicles have had names. π
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lol! Gotta love it!
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Absolutely Jodi. “No brainer” really! π
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Hahaha, he was just trying to spread some love, which happened to coincide with a lot of photos.
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Hi Ameena. He probably was… and he did… and it was appreciated! π
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Dogs live for the moment, and they love with a passion that knows no bounds. Somehow ‘oops’ doesn’t seem to cover it, but I know what you mean. Hubby was sorting out some of his tools and fixings by size when Maggie decided to ‘help’.
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Just got to love them when they clearly want to get involved (regardless of the motive)! π
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Maybe his message is that you should do that work on a table. Of course, one tail swipe would clean that table off.
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Hi Kate. I think the message is to work in the basement. He’s not allowed down there! π
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Awww! I’m sure in the moment it’s so frustrating, but it’s hard to stay mad at a precious animal just looking for affection (and has no idea of his size or that he messed up your photos). π
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You are quite right. One look at that big furry face and…… well you know the rest!
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I don’t think some of them ever outgrow thinking they are still a puppy and somehow retain that nuclear powered affection engine.
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I agree with you. I just have to allow for almost 80lbs of puppy flying around periodically! π
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Awww. Ray was so overcome with joy and excitement in seeing you that he couldn’t help himself! π
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He gets very exuberant quite easily with us. I think that his herding instincts make him so happy to have us both in the same place for once! π
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And on top of that…I think Ray is so happy to have so much love lumped into one place! π
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Oh my goodness!! Perhaps the kitchen table might be a better place. π
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A good thought Dorinda, but I needed more space than that would allow! π
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I imagine Ray would probably find a way up there, too!! π
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Well he certainly has the size to get pretty much anywhere if he sets his mind to it! π
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