Secrets between people are a wonderful way of complicating life in general but, some times, they can be logically justified … just as they can logically unravel in the most inopportune moments!
In November 2012, I decided that I might possibly like a dog in my life. I had known for many yearsΒ that Carol loved dogs, but I had a German Shepherd bite in my background which brought the whole idea into question.
As I needed to research the idea further, I introduced myself to our local Humane Society (OMHS) and presented them with my dilemma. It should be noted that I had already retired from work, but Carol was still working, so she had no idea what I did during the day!
Below is copied from my book “Who Said I was up for Adoption?” I would suggest that the pale blue Smiley Moment box be read after the surrounding text (on white background)!
I just want to add that Who Said I Was Up for Adoption is a really good read, one I enjoyed immensely! It includes a little bit of dog-training advice and psychology, a little bit of humor and a lot of love. If you haven’t read it, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR???
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Thank you so much Rae. π
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A charming ‘oops’ kind of yarn for the week of love. Secrets can be delicious and it sounds like it in this case. π
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I have the book and will be reading it shortly! Can’t wait!
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Well thank you Dorinda. I hope you enjoy it. You will most certainly gain some insights into both Ray and myself. π
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Iβm sure Iβll love it!
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A very good secret to have!! I love this story π
I had kept a secret from a friend, let’s call him Alex, for many years (namely that I was in love with him), and your article reminded me of it. My secret was innocently guessed at by another friend, Lewis, who didn’t realise it was for real – and I was too slow to correct him. I was stunned, to be honest, that he could have guessed so correctly. Kinda sucked though that Alex was sitting opposite me at the time. It has been a bit awkward since, but I’m still friends with both of them (Alex didnt like me back sadly).
The actual converstion went something like this (please note I was tipsy at the time, otherwise I would have denied it):
Me: You’ll NEVER guess my secret!
Lewis: Um… you’re in love with Alex!!
Me: -_-
Lewis: 0_0
Alex: -_-
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Ah yes…. secret loves ………. they’re the worst!
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Unfortunately yes ahahah
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Well …. whether it is learning to have a successful Blog, or a successful relationship, there are always events/circumstances from which we can learn. That is life! Perhaps you will develop the next love of your life with greater efficiency. π
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I suppose the next love of my life will be the next book I write – and I will try hard to develop it quickly and with great efficiency! Thanks π
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Go for it … and all the best. π
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I really did not want the hassle of owning a dog. My daughter had been begging for a while so I finally gave in. She had asked for a specific kind of a dog and I knew it was a slim chance we would find one of them at the shelter so we when we happen to drive by I thought, sure why not. Sure enough the dog she wanted was not there. And then I saw “Blue”. I don’t know what the hell happened. Even now after a few months I can’t explain it. But it is the best thing that could have happened to us. We love Blue and don’t know what we’d do with out him. And he’s a real chick magnet, so yeah, there is that. Love your blog! – Robert
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Hi Robert. Welcome to my Blog. So glad that Blue is fitting in to your family. A major problem with getting a pet for one’s child is that when the child goes away to college/university (or whatever), it’s the parents who are left with the pet. Sounds like you have everything under control (or at least Blue does!). π
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lol she didn’t wait for college. He is all hers, but I do all the maintenance. Lol. I saw that coming though and it’s not a problem for me. If you get a chance check out my latest post about the top 10 things I tell my dog. There might be a few there that you do too. But probably quite a few that you do not. lol. Great post. I’ll follow along. – Robert
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I tried clicking on my gravatar and then on “view profile” and then on the website “The Detective and The Case of the Missing lol”. It worked fine. If not just enter http://www.thealvarezchronicles.com It should work. Hope you have a great writing day! -Robert
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Those are the lies which are rather romantic and touching.
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Gentle exploration of something is often best done in secret. That way there are no expectations from anyone.
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You got it! That was the whole point! π
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I do admire you for taking the time and effort to find out what dog ownership really involves before just going there and coming home with a dog – as Many people do. This is why so many are returned. Also, that you took the time to find the Right dog-match for your family and your lifestyle. π
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It just seemed the obvious thing to do! In fairness though, the staff at the shelter were a bit concerned about me with the challenges that Ray presented, especially with my dog-bite history. As noted in the book, Ray really did pick me, rather than the reverse. I think he made a good choice! π π
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Yes, Ray wasn’t the easiest dog to start with, but you were a good match. π
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I just found “you” in Spam! Anyway… I think we were a good match also. π
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Aw Thank you for retrieving me! π
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No problem. Just curious as to why you were sent there! π
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Happens to the best of us now and then! I’m sure I’ve rescued you before now π
Which is why I frequently check my spam comments π
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Secrets can be innocent, just like yours here. Why tell Carol anything, if you decided, that you were not ready? This would just make her sad, when she loves dogs.
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A good and sensitive rationale! π
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