So many of us (perhaps all of us) have experienced times when our lives made no sense to us at all. Perhaps it was the residual effect of a traumatic experience, or perhaps we just found ourselves in a state of absolute confusion. What does one do when life appears to be pointless? What does one do when one feels isolated from the world around us? Sometimes clarity can come from a total stranger.
“Just a Man”
He listened;
He understood;
He befriended;
He cared.
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All the courage he gave me,
By just being there,
Made me feel like
I wanted to live.
He gave me so much
Yet… had so little to give…
But his time.
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I realized later
There was so much more.
I was indebted to that man
And… what’s more,
To experience the caring of someone unknown
made me wonder.
Who else was out there alone?
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History, thankfully, speaks for itself.
The evidence to me is quite clear.
Were it not for one man
Who held out his hand,
Would I even be here?
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Would I even be here
To write these words?
Would I even be here to care
About others less fortunate.
The hungry; The sick;
And the ones for whom no one is there?
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He opened my world
To a life of compassion.
He gave me a reason to live.
He made me see that…
Through the trials of my life,
I could help,
And I am so glad that he did.
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I met a girl from the street,
Selling red roses simply so she could eat.
I met a man jilted by another.
I met a lost soul,
Who had nowhere to go,
And an old lady
Who just dreamed of going home.
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For all their differences,
They had much in common.
They all just wanted a friend.
Someone to talk to.
Someone who would listen.
Someone with time to spend.
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I listened;
I understood;
I befriended;
I cared.
(Thank you Samaritan, Rev. Philip Cawood, St. Mary’s Church, Peterborough)
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“Just a Man” is taken from my book “Just Thinking” (click cover in column [may have to scroll up] on right for more information). The book contains many more pieces about life’s challenges, relationships, and even a few about our almost 80lbs of rescued attitude in the form of a German Shepherd/Rottweiler named Ray!
Loved the poem, Colin.. my favourite part was :
“He gave me so much
Yet… had so little to give…
But his time.”
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Thank you Himali and yes, those lines (as simple as they are) capture so much. So many people think that one needs money to be able to give charitably, and not everybody has spare money … but we can usually find some spare time if we look hard enough.
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Hi Colin, when we were young and didn’t have mug to spare, still my parents cared for others in little ways they could. Sometime when a guest would come home without a warning and we had dinner for just 4, they would say they’ve already had dinner to accommodate our guest. Such kindness warms my soul.
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Yes it just takes a little thought, and some appreciation of other’s perspectives. As long as there are people like that around, there is hope for us as a species! 🙂
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I so agree and I am so blessed to have people like you and my parents around to learn kindness, compassion and generosity from. Big hugs to you, Carol and Ray – woof woof 😊😊
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Always a pleasure Himali, but it is really nothing more than treating people the way I would like to be treated. A very simple concept. 🙂
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Love the simple yet very powerful concept! 🙂
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It’s the KIS principle – “Keep It Simple” (from the more expressive KISS principle – “Keep It Simple, Stupid”), which can be applied to work and personal life.
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LOL! I believe this is the first time I heard the KISS principle. I think I will have to remember it. 🙂
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The KISS principle is well known here in a business context. 🙂
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It may be used here too, sometimes I am in the dark about some things. . Just saying … 🙂
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We call it Keep it simple, Silly 😀 I love the KIS principle and certainly would strive to implement in my daily actions.
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I like the “Keep It Simple, Silly”. It makes the point equally as well, and is much less offensive. Good one. Thx. 🙂
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This is incredible, Colin – I am sure many of us have gone through such phases and hopefully, many of us have been lucky enough to draw an inspiration to get back up.
Belated Congratulations on your new book 🙂 I have been incredibly ignorant of the world off late 😦 Hoping to correct it now!
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You have a good excuse, in that it takes a while to adjust to moving around the world! 🙂
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Beautiful poem.
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Thank you LeeAnn … and there are many more in the “Just Thinking” book.
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Reblogged this on Reflections ~ by Exodus House Ministries and commented:
A deeply moving reminder for us all to be better humans….and the profound impact we have on each other.
Thank you Colin…for your beautiful addition .
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Profound. Simply profound. This is going as a guest post on my ministry page. There are of lessons that need learned within these words.
Thanks and Blessings to you and Ray!💖🐕
And Thank You…..for this reminder….and the lessons shared.
🐾 Andrea.
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You’re very welcome Andrea. We, as a society, must be encouraged to get back to the basics of treating people the way that we would like to be treated. Some of the happiest people I have known, have served others. Some of the most miserable people that I have known, have only served themselves.
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What’s sad is ..the miserable outnumber those who are happy quite a bit. But that’s ok! Gives me more excuses to be crazy enough to make them laugh!😁 You would be surprised how much easier it is to get some to care through laughter and a simple smile!😉 We’ll get there! 1 grump at a time😆 !!
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This poem sends a powerful message. The importance of being there for others can’t be measured. As one who has benefited from your listening ear, the value is priceless.
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And all it takes is the decision to allocate some of one’s time to the service of others. 🙂
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Agreed and Thank you. 🙂
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such encouraging words. to make someone want to live is a great gift.
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Agreed Gina. Sadly, we seem to live in a rather self-focused society … but good Samaritans are still out there volunteering to serve the less fortunate. We should celebrate them a little more, and ourselves a little less perhaps? Just thinking.
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i agree, we are too self-absorbed, I am guilty of that too and need to take focus away from self to be really effective in this world. your poem is a start Colin.
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Keep thinking like that Gina, and if you take the next step in some manner, the reward (in the context of serving others) will be priceless. Your self-esteem/self worth will be boosted, and life could well take on a whole new meaning. 🙂
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thank you Colin. words I will take to heart.
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