The following is a copy of a May 2016 Post from this Blog. There are now many new Followers who would have never seen it, and therefore missed out on a golden opportunity to have some constructive and positive reflections! You “guys” can now have the same opportunity that my earlier Followers had! Enjoy!
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Having Ray’s book released to the world has triggered many thoughts, not the least of which is how one’s life’s journey can change directions in ways that could never have been predicted, simply as a result of specific circumstances.
If I had not failed my pre-career medical, I would have never met the girl that I married.
If I had never married that girl, I would have never come to Canada because it was her aunt that sold us on the idea and eventually sponsored us.
Many years later, if I had never been put on a special project by my employer, I would have never met Carol.
If I had never met Carol, it would have been virtually guaranteed that I would have never contemplated letting a dog into my life.
If I had never let Ray into my life, I would have never written the book about him!
If somebody told me 5 years ago that, in 5 years, I would be living with an almost 80 pounds dog who had been abandoned and carried significant emotional baggage as a result, I would have grinned and responded “Yeh……….. right!”
If that same person told me that I would do pretty much anything for that dog, I would start to wonder what they had been drinking.
If they then told me that I would write, and publish, a book covering the trials and tribulations of his first 18 months with us, I would be convinced that they were totally delusional.
Circumstances! Aren’t they wonderful? They can just happen, and our life takes on a completely new direction.
Circumstances! Provide us with incentives to step out of our comfort zones.
Circumstances! Offer us challenges from which we can expand our horizons and generally grow.
Perhaps we should all reflect on the circumstances that brought us to our current “place” and celebrate because, regardless of the positives and negatives of the various life-changing circumstances, they did happen and they did make us who we are today. As for tomorrow? There will hopefully be more circumstances.
Thank you for Re-posting this one for new followers such as myself! Circumstances can definitely open new doors for us that we can never imagine we would walk through. But unless we keep our eyes open to truly see these opportunities and -yes- step out of our comfort zones, we may not even know that such doors were being opened and never expand our awareness and potential.
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Glad you enjoyed it. Our situation today is certainly going to provide some circumstances where change may be advantageous. 🙂
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It is good (as you reassured me) that you are still around. I enjoyed this post.
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Just re-distributing my time Rae. I’ll still Post periodically, and they may be copies of earlier Posts and/or just book promotion Posts. We’ll see how the time thing works out! 🙂
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I can’t remember if I had seen this post before or not but it is a good one! Very true!
Of course going through my mind currently is “….if I had never put the couch down by the river!…” 🙂
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.. and if you had never written a story about Anna in which Anna disappears at the beginning for no known reason!
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…mmm…! And if I would have just brought more bottles with me.
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🙂
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That’s how I came to have a cat….
Enjoyed this one
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That’s great. You could obviously relate to the situation. 🙂
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If somebody told me about a week ago that you were going to back off from blogging, I wouldn’t have believed it.
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“Backing off” is a good term, but it does not mean zero time in WordPress … just considerably less. 🙂
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Well alright. I’m just being a smartass.
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You’re allowed! 🙂
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Nooooo you?? I am shocked!
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Sorry to disillusion you.
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Glad you republished. Thoroughly enjoyed. I’m sure circumstances had something to do with it.
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🙂
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