I had some banking business to attend to so we all went to the bank and Ray, predictably, had a bounce in his step once he knew where we were going. Upon entering the bank, he went straight to the Service Desk, obviously intent on meeting his friend there who loves him and gives him biscuits but, this time, she was not there.
Not to be deterred, he just went into his sit position and stared at the lady who was there. As I have noted on a number of occasions, how one responds to a Rotti stare** is very much dictated by ones feelings towards dogs. In this case, the lady was clearly uncomfortable with Ray staring at her and explained that she was afraid of dogs.
We pulled him back to a seating area where we waited for me to be called in for my appointment. While we waited, one of the Tellers (who owns a dog and loves Ray dearly – in fact she moaned at me a week or two ago for going into the bank without him!) became free and, as I needed to make a withdrawal anyway, Ray got his opportunity.
The teller saw us coming and immediately got a biscuit out for him and within seconds (too fast for us mere humans), he had his feet on the counter top and was grabbing his biscuit! I was then called in to my appointment so Carol and Ray waited for me.
As we left the bank, and as Ray did not get his Service Desk attention or treat, we thought that we would take him to see his friends at Lululemon. Again, we had very happy Ray bouncing along with of us but, as we turned into Lululemon’s door, I noticed that the dog biscuit bowl was empty! Ray pulled us around to where the bowl was, but then looked a little perplexed.
One of the staff (who was busy on the checkout) turned and said “Hi!” to Ray, who just sat and stared at the staff and then at the bowl. I mentioned that there were no biscuits in the bowl.
A few moments later, a guy came briskly towards us with a hand full of biscuits and dropped them in the bowl. He turned towards Ray and said (with a big smile) “Is this Ray?” We said yes it was, and he immediately turned to the lady on checkout and said “This is Ray!” He then explained how much they loved his Christmas Card*, which they still had, and how it had brought an emotional response from a number of staff members.
I explained that his book could well be available in March, and he offered to promote it for us in the store. All went well and while he was talking to us, he was bending over Ray and stroking him. Everything was very relaxed until Ray decided that it was time for another biscuit. He lunged and barked, which surprised all of us! Ray was in disgrace at that point!
(Thinking back over Ray’s day. His friend on the Service Desk at the bank had not been there. I abandoned him when I went to my appointment. The Lululemon biscuit bowl was empty when he arrived there. Things had really not gone “according to plan” for him. Trigger stacking perhaps?)
Fortunately, the guy also had a “rescue dog” and appeared to totally understand the circumstances. Having been on the “receiving end” of Ray’s lunge and bark routine a few times myself, I have to acknowledge that it can be quite a daunting experience.
All’s well that ends well and Ray caused no problems on his way home. He was happy because he did get some biscuits, and I was happy that the Lululemon staff both recognized Ray and enjoyed his visit, and of course that they offered to promote his book.
An end to another lovely day!
*See “Ray’s Christmas Cards” – December 20, 2015
**See “The Look” – January 5, 2016
Just like us uprights, we have ‘moods’ but Ray seemed to handle all the activity well even with the lunge. Congrats on securing promotion at a shop. You sure you haven’t done this before?? 🙂
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🙂 Nope! Never been in any PR or advertising business. I do however subscribe to the philosophy of “Always ask! If they say no, you are no further behind than before you asked. But if they say yes…………..!” Of course that is a variation on many similar quotes such as “If you have everything to gain, and nothing to lose, do it!” Great motivational pieces! 🙂 Finally, I have a lot of time invested in this book so really want to give it the best shot I can at selling and making some money for Ray’s Humane Society! 🙂
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Well you’re a natural. Like you, I’m in the “it never hurts to ask” camp. 🙂
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Good for you! Of course we both know that we will often hear a firm and immovable “no”, but then we just move on. Right! 🙂
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Like you said, nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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So happy to see there is a community that supports Ray and loves him on good days and not so good days:)
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Hi Nena. I think that the old saying “What you get out of something is proportionate with what you put into it” applies here. Ray has put a lot of work into acclimatizing to his new life… and is now reaping the rewards. 🙂
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You are right:) Ray sows a lot of love!
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Promotion is so important and having someone at hands who can handle that professionally is gold!!! So glad how it worked out!
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I guess even dogs can have a bad day. And as you suggest there are triggers. I routinely take Kali to the big box hardware store in town and she is always well behaved and respectful of merchandise as well as the people she encounters. Last week thought she went “bonkers” when a fork lift started beeping that high pitched warning sound and I could hardly constrain her. For only 55 pounds she is quite strong and she uncharacteristically ignored all my commands and efforts to gain her attention. We finally checked out and it took her a few minutes to recover.
I’ve taken Kali to a number of stores in town but few in our area have treats readily available for their canine visitors. Reading your blogs over the months I get a wonderful picture of a small dog loving community. Good for you and Ray!
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Hi Michael. Those equipment alarms can be a problem! Ray had all four feet off the ground at the same time once when an air valve “went off” as a truck passed very close to us! Such is our world!
There are quite a few stores here which will allow dogs inside, which is probably a very smart business move given the amount of dogs that appear to live around here! Sadly, the Town of Oakville is not so cooperative as Carol and Ray were asked to leave a library lobby yesterday!
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Trigger stacking? I think I get that myself!
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In all seriousness Kate, I think we all do. It’s just a case of how many stressful situations (triggers) can we handle (stacking) before we “lose it”! It is a dog training/behavior term. 🙂
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I only wish I could recover with a biscuit. I love the term and intend to use it when I’m grumpy.
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Sadly we will never be able to compete with a dog for recovery as they pretty much live “in the moment”, and have such simple pleasures. (I envy Ray!). There is a part in his book where I was on the receiving end of his teeth. He was back to his normal self within a few minutes. I wasn’t!
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I can’t believe dogs are allowed in your banks! It would definitely not happen here, unless a service dog.
Ray behaves extremely well most of the time. There are always going to be a few lapses, given his past, as I know from experience with my own Little Monkey.
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Our local TD Canada Trust bank is very good however, other branches do not encourage dogs so it would appear to be a branch manager’s decision. As for Ray’s behavior? As you know, it is generally very good and, as I told my kids on numerous occasions – “I’ll expect perfection from you as soon as I can set the example. Your quite safe!” Ray gets the same consideration! 🙂
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That’s why he’s so well-behaved with you – because you have the patience to let him be himself 🙂
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Having experienced two teenagers discovering that the world does not revolve around them, Ray is easy! 🙂
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Hmm, I’m guessing you have boys? My rescue dogs are Way more difficult than my daughters ever were. 🙂
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Nope… one of each variety. Both were disasters as teenagers, although the boy was more so! 🙂
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Oh well – as long as they turn out all right in the end! 🙂
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