My granddaughter (Alex) and her boyfriend are over here from Vancouver for a brief vacation and to visit various family members and, of course, we wanted some time with them as well. This situation always dictates a discussion about how Ray is going to fit in with whatever we do and, in this case had some distinctly unique factors.
Ray has never met either of them before, but they are both comfortable around dogs in general. We were going to offer to drive them to their next scheduled stop, but that would entail a 2 hour drive with Carol and one visitor plus Ray in the back of the car! How was he going to react? There was a last minute complication because my other granddaughter (Caleigh) was going to be visiting as well!
With our usual “how to work with Ray” info session, everything seemed fine. They ensured that they allowed Ray to approach them, rather than risk getting a reaction by approaching him. With our later 2 hour drive in mind, we decided to take a short drive around town with Carol, Alex and Ray in the back so we could get an idea as to whether it was even going to be feasible. Again, no problems as Ray just got himself comfortable between them and appeared to enjoy the ride.
During the course of their visit, Ray in fact started making friendly advances towards Alex with some nudges, nose touches and an occasional lick. When Caleigh arrived, again, he seemed quite receptive to letting her into his home after he had checked her out!
We all went out to lunch and on the way back …………………………
Yup! Ray was quite happy to have Alex on the other end of his leash!
After we said our farewells to Caleigh, we prepared for the 2 hour drive. As soon as Ray realized that not only did he not know where we were going, but it was going to be a long drive, he settled down somewhat jammed between Carol and Alex. Ray, being Ray, eventually resolved the space restrictions by stretching out over both of them. He even allowed Alex to stroke him!
In the short time that we were together, Ray really did seem to readily accept Alex as a friend. This is going to be difficult for her to explain to her Mum when she gets back to Vancouver because her Mum is Melanie, who had a distinct collision with Ray in 2013 (Chapter 8 – A Visitor, in his book “Who said I was up for Adoption?”)
A wonderful time was had by all, including Ray who behaved admirably, He deserves a Gold medal for that performance!
π … I am awarding him a gold cup as I’m all out of medals.
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Hi Chris. He prefers cups. They accommodate more treats than medals do. He’s no fool! π
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A successful family gathering facilitated by Ray. π Good boy!
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It certainly was; he certainly did; he certainly is π
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Ray definitely does deserve a gold medal! That is awesome that he took so well to Alex and everyone. More treats for him and pat yourselves on the back as well for your hard work and persistence in training him. It is obvious that he feels secure in his loving home and is learning how to trust others!
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He really has done so well! Who would have known from the Ray of 3-1/2 years ago! π
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That must have been very exciting for Ray. I think he rather enjoyed the new companies instead of being confused. Such a lovely family gathering!
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He did seem to totally enjoy the company, but the ride in the car was remarkable as he stretched out over both Carol and Alex’s laps! He has only done that to Carol and I before! π
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He must have felt really good and totally comfortable. So cute!
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….and of course Alex was thrilled! I think she would have taken him home with her if she could have done so!
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Ray is too charming π
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Well done, R! You are learning to go with the flow. AND to adjust the flow so you fit in!
Love and licks,
Cupcake
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Hi Cupcake! Yes I’m getting there slowly. Yesterday was really nice because everybody was really friendly. Woof! Ray.
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Time has passed and he has learned a lot. I bet you sighed a huge sigh of relief too.
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You can probably imagine just how big a sigh that was! You will probably imagine it even more so after you have read tomorrow’s Post!
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I’m all ears….
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Actually, all eyes would perhaps be more practical in these circumstances but… whatever! π
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Absolutely fantastic! Great achievement and a testament to all the hard work you have all (including you Ray!) put in these past few years π
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He did so well didn’t he! He really surprised us, not that we were expecting any serious problems, but more with how he gravitated towards Alex in such a short time!
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Great news!
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It was… and we’re still talking about it! π
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What a good boy, and good tactics to make him feel comfortable rather than threatened. Hugs and treats by proxy Ray. Well done. π
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Thx Di. BOL! Ray
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Yay, Ray! You’ve come a long way the last three years since you met Melanie. Good boy.
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Thanks Lexi buddy. I am so much happier around people now, although some still give me a bit of a problem! I don’t think I could ever be a therapy dog like you, unless I could pick the people I see! Hope you’re doing okay buddy. I know that you are not well and wish that I could give you some my health. Woof! Ray.
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Not everyone’s mission is to be a therapy dog, Ray. You will know yours when you find it. And who knows, maybe it was (is) to introduce Colin to the wonderful world of dogs. You have certainly made him have to learn a lot!!
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Yes I’ve certainly done that! BOL! Woof!
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It looks like he has come a long way since his early days with you. Good job, Ray! Aren’t new friends wonderful?!
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He really has come a long way Samantha and, as I have said many times, all the work that we have put into him would be worth nothing if he had not cooperated. We are very proud of him, and it is lovely to see him accept displays of affection from others.
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Ray looks quite at home with Alex π And how fairly he treated the two of them!
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He really impressed us! π
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